It’s common for families to experience a distance gap between aging loved ones and their adult children or other family members. This distance can be physical, such as living in different states or countries, or it can be emotional, such as feeling disconnected from one another. When it comes to making the decision to move a loved one into a senior living community, this distance can add an additional layer of complexity. Here are some ways for overcoming distance in senior care and maintaining strong relationships:
- Communication is key. Communication is critical to maintaining strong relationships with aging loved ones in senior living communities. Regular phone calls, video chats, or even letters can help you stay connected and informed about their health and well-being. Listen actively and show empathy for any concerns they may have.
- Embrace technology. Many senior living communities offer technology such as telemedicine, virtual events and online portals for families to access updates and communicate with staff. Be sure to check out the social media footprint of the community – this is a great way to stay informed of everyday happenings. Encourage your loved one to embrace technology and explore ways to connect online.
- Visit when possible. Keep in mind that even short visits can have a significant impact on older adults’ well-being and happiness. Plan activities together, such as taking a walk or sharing a meal, to make the most of your time together.
- Connect with staff. Building a relationship with staff at the senior living community can help you stay informed about your loved one’s health and well-being. Get to know the staff and ask questions about your loved one’s daily routine, medications and any concerns you may have.
- Involve your elders in family activities. Plan family gatherings or outings and invite them to join you. You might even work with the staff at your aging loved one’s senior living home to plan a family event or two each year at the community. This can help them feel included and connected to the family.
- Send care packages. Include small items such as photos, books or treats to show your loved one that you are thinking of them. Be sure to include a personal note.
By following these tips and getting support from experts in aging, you can maintain strong relationships with your aging loved ones and help them thrive in their new living situation.
“I’ve had an amazing experience here at Inland Christian Home! This community is very close-knit and is one of few multi-level senior living communities in the area. I would definitely recommend ICH to anyone that is interested in placing family members here in a well-maintained and managed community.”
-Jennifer D.